A Look at Popular Culture
A review of the popular culture as reflected by movies, advertisements, television shows and print media at present would reveal that sexiness in men is often depicted as a hunky, muscular guy, displaying washboard abs, with a sultry, captivating look that can melt a girl’s heart on sight. Ask a typical female whom they would name as famous sexy men in today’s generation and the list would more or less likely include Adam Levine, Taylor Lautner, Channing Tatum, Zac Efron, Robert Pattinson, Cristiano Ronaldo and David Beckham among others.
Sexiness has been defined as an aesthetic expression of beauty, within and without. It is contended that sexiness comes naturally for some, while for others, it is something that you work for, something that you consciously do to achieve your desired target. For a lot of people, sexiness is a combination of the physical, mental and emotional, while for some, it is simply being able to carry yourself confidently and express what you want to convey in the best angle possible. Sexiness is defined as physical attractiveness for many people that is blended, polished and presented with a lot of other pleasant characteristics that a person possesses. his is just good old-fashioned chivalry but it’s important.
One popular article has illustrated five unexpected things that women find sexy in men. Starting off the list is the men’s smell. Yes, it is one important variable in the sexiness equation. It speaks of good grooming, a well-maintained body and represents how a man wants to project himself to others. Next, is the man’s manners. Looks are not all there is to it. You need to know how to conduct yourself properly and treat the women right. Third is your feminine side, that is, your sensitivity, tenderness, and indulgence. Fourth is sharing of your secrets, your thoughts, and your vulnerabilities which women perceive as intimacy and deep connection. Last off the list is your rhythm. Women find men who can groove and move very, very sexy.
Personality matters a lot. Most women find men who can carry a good conversation, who can make them laugh and who can entertain them very appealing and sexy. Some women on the other hand, would find introverted men sexy because of the mystery behind the quiet exterior. They feel that you are a puzzle that they need to solve and that makes you interesting to them. You just have to be careful not to bore them. Personality also speaks about your attitude in life. They way you perceive the world, how you deal with problems and how stable and confident you are when faced with a tough situation. Women adore men who are not just physically strong, but emotionally strong as well. You can read more about that here, for now I am sticking to the topic of what makes a man sexy.
Let’s face it. Having good looks is very important. As a matter of fact, physical appearance would almost always be the first thing that will catch a woman’s interest in you. Though beauty is subjective, popular culture has taught us what an epitome of the male specie should look like. Now, you do not have to be as stunning as George Clooney or possess the same magnetic appeal as Ian Somerhalder but definitely, you should take care of the way you appear and rehearse if needed, the kind of beauty that you wish to present to people around you. Smile and be confident that you are sexy in your own natural way.